WOOOOOOW!! What a super organized and specific plan!Bravo! I think others should copy and paste yours and then change the details to match their sitch....
Do you have a deadline for when you will go dim if H doesn't stop communicating with OW? I suggest a rough time frame for now (3 months???) but then you can adjust that later too! And maybe the vets have a better idea. Based on my gut, I think that when you notice your H starting to pursue you again there should be some discussion about MC and ending the EA....
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004