WOOOOOOW!! What a super organized and specific plan!Bravo! I think others should copy and paste yours and then change the details to match their sitch....

Do you have a deadline for when you will go dim if H doesn't stop communicating with OW? I suggest a rough time frame for now (3 months???) but then you can adjust that later too! And maybe the vets have a better idea. Based on my gut, I think that when you notice your H starting to pursue you again there should be some discussion about MC and ending the EA....


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004