still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

ours are not very similar at all! Except for the insecurity part. That is the same. I wonder if that's a similar theme for all of us; we'll see.

Well the waywards tend to admit that the reason they cheated was because of insecurity issues. I don't know if MLCers tend to be insecure.

And damn it- I have insecurity issues too but I am loyal as a dog!

Going back to your WH description, NM. . . doesn't really sound like the kind of guy who has an A. Did the OW pursue him

?

Ohhhhhh yes she did! And I warned him and he told me I was being ridiculous- she'd never go for a guy like him. Uhm you'd think that would be a red flag? But I had absolutely no reason to suspect he'd take the bait!