P, I thought you were in labor already! If you hadn't posted anything by now, I was going to post "are you having the baby???" But looks like not quite. smile

I'm really depressed/angry about our men. I'm saying "our" here because they're kinda similar. I would feel awful if WH was always this selfish and immature and I normalized it. That could have happened. Probably did.

I like the word "deficient." That makes some sense.

The mother equation is in your sitch too, huh?

It will be really interesting to see how these guys actually are when the baby arrives. I was imagining my girl being 4. I realized that at least my WH will probably have strong opinions about what she does-- she should read this and be active in that. He's actually quite particular. I don't know about your WAH. Can you imagine your WAH being opinionated about what she does?

I can't believe you felt the swivelling. I mean, I can. It must have felt so weird. I also hope that she gets turned back around. Come on, girl!