Naej, Thanks for worrying about me. I've been quite the companion this week. I sacrificed my ballroom night, as my W had the day off, and I knew she would be restless to go out. I made a deal that I would spend the evening with her if she would practice with me, which she did.
I did go to a lesson on my own the next night. It was Cha Cha, which I want to improve upon.
She and I went to a yoga class the next night. The gym was offering a free half hour with a trainer, which my W signed up for. She needs some toning in her abdomen and upper body (in my mind only). The Yoga class reminded her that she needs some toning work, and that dancing doesn't meet all fitness needs.
I've been busy reading "The Art of Forgiving" by Lewis Smedes and "Boundaries in Marriage" by Henry Cloud. I think both books will be helpful.
Her dance friend, who she ran around with last year, has been telling people in the community that we're married (a big no no, as my W is private about personal matters). She called and told him to stay out of her life.
I've been enjoying the mild celebrity of being known as a performance dancer. People have been buzzing about me at work. We're looking forward to signing up for our next performance opportunity.
My W called me and let me know about an opportunity for baseball tickets for the local team. She never has wanted to go in the past. We're going to see a game this weekend. It should be a nice change of pace from our usual routine.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
