"I am in the process of making new friends in situations similar to mine."
How about "I am in the process of waiting for WH to recognize OW's true colors and realize he is making a mistake?"
and I forgot to add a big thing about WH being a wounded bird: his first wife left him for someone else- at least she insisted on a D from the get go! He was with her 5 years total; married for 1.5 when she told him she wanted a D because she didn't love him anymore and she loved this other guy. I remember his ex W didn't like his childhood friends (but I did)!
Oh and his exW started emailing him in fall 08 (5 years later) to tell him she made a mistake, has 3 kids in AZ with this guy she left him for and she is miserable and misses him.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
