I do appreciate good listeners but one of my LLs is conversation. What is funny, though, is that lately I have met some men (not through dating) that liked to talk...about their opinions and themselves, not about life, current events, various topics etc. My WH would talk about those things with me but just had a few statements to say, not expand and explain and justify, which is what I would like more of. So I don't know if the grass is greener in the conversation aspect with other men. I would take a listener again!! I guess I need to learn how to better draw them out, ask different q's to find out more on how they think or why they think or how they feel...
I know what you mean! My H was the same way. It was so frustrating when he told me one of the things he liked about OW was she like to have conversations! Argggh
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I still picture my life with WH and visualize drawing him to me, etc. like the plan. But I am lonely! I want to meet more friends and currently I am a single parent! So I hope it doesn't screw up my positive thinking/laws of attraction!
"I am in the process of making new friends in situations similar to mine."
(wanting expresses lack which draws more lack)
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
