You are right that I will be able to detach easier if I have more interest or activities outside the home. I will be glad for this day.
I did take the money left in the account and pay some of my bills, and she will now have to come up with more money in there to pay for food, gas, etc. I guess she did not think about this. I have to protect my interest too. She has to realize I will do that. So I did it.
Does not feel as good as I thought it would. I do not know why I feel a little quilty at the same time happy. I hate this in between feelings.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097