NM, sorry if I have missed a beat along the way, but what exactly are your H's flaws (as you see them)?
Why is he a 'wounded bird'?
(and I'm not talking about him leaving his pregant wife for another woman, which is just about the most obvious sign of someone not being in their right mind!)
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
