Do I really want to save this marriage?

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I met with my pastor this morning. I've been struggling with the whole "for better for worse" section of my wedding vows. You know, is it okay for me to break my vows just because he did? It was a helpful meeting. He said the "better worse" part is more for situations like cancer or lost job or other things like that. He also asked me if i thought my H was a narcissist. I think its a strong possibility. Anyone here ever dealt with a narcissist?
Meet with the lawyer on Monday, DB coach alone on Tuesday, and DB coach together on Wednesday. Busy busy week.