Came home from work the other day to find H in bed. (alone, don't panic!) He's been running hard to work and make money and keep all of HIS balls in the air, I think the hours and being tired all the time and the stress wore him out. He was in bed all day, took some stuff for his headache when I offered him something, and he slept all evening. I went about my business outside, came in at dark and H got up to eat some soup, sat around, and we went to bed. H complained how cold he was, and maybe that was a chance I missed to snuggle with him to help him warm up. Idunno, I am just so used to being selfish now that I just went to sleep.
I am going for a trailride with friends tomorrow and I want to take my young horse for her first time out with a group. H is not coming along, and he is strongly suggesting adamently I do NOT take Young Horse but I take Favorite Mare. I said ok but then you will have to go on some rides with me to get Young Horse ready. H said okay. So um, who really wins?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.