don't be afraid of pushing her away, taking from you without asking is disrespectful, setting a boundary and telling her that this is unacceptable is a start, enforcing that boundary will come afterward.
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robx... police ...no but the rest, already on it.
I feel like every time I walk into a room I see what else is missing.
OUCH.
But.. She has made a choice. I am free to reply to an equal level - by my rules.
Money is an easy fix - before I see her tomorrow it will be sorted.
She planned and stripped the house.
Planned
Organised
Long term
Regards, Gyn
No one says you have to press charges Gyn, it is a good idea as far as a legal standpoint is concerned, take inventory of what was taken, take pics, document it, contact the Police by phone, tell them what happened, they can come down or you can go down and fill out an official report.
Then its documented, I know, you're holding back, you're a good guy, a nice guy and you don't want to do anything that causes irreparable damage, I don't think that's going to happen, I think by filing the report it sends the msg to your wife that she needs to reconsider her actions when dealing with you and to respect you more and what is now considered your home & living space.
Doing nothing just communicates that when someone does this to you, that you will do nothing.
But again, this is just advice, do what you need to do, taking inventory and taking pics is an easy thing you can do by yourself.
100% agree with this. That BS move is the highly disrespectful and should be addressed.
