Your D being upset with her would have meant that your D was upset...and my experience tells me that the MLC does remember the kindnesses you present them with when they come out of it.

I think you did the right thing, for you and the guy you are and your daughter and the dad you are. For your wife? F her. : ) any good that comes out of it for her toward you is just incidental.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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