sb2, get out of the house and get busy. I have not read your other posts or threads and I do not know your sitch. I do know that 6 years ago this month I found out the reason for my H's detachment from me (ow/MLC). H never left the house although he moved 95% of his stuff somewhere. Now....he is slowly inching back.
Many days I was just like you, I didn't know how long I could go on the way things were. But I did, sometimes it was minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day.
I stayed busy. I volunteered. I got out of the house even though I like being home and love being outside. Find things that will bring a smile to your face. Whistle. There is no way that you can frown and be sad while you whistle. And, it makes them wonder what the dickens you're so happy about!
As much as your MC is supposed to be helping, if your H is in MLC it will NOT help to talk to him or bring things up and try to rationalize with him. It just doesn't. I think in many cases it angers them and riles them even more and they feel forced to take action.
Do a 180 and walk the other way, GAL, and try to maintain that friendship with your H. Time and patience are your friends.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
