just wanted to post something sage wrote, just to remind me, that time is what i need, just give it time
Quote: As far as the sense of security....I can relate to this too...as late as March (6 months after the bomb), h told me that "he still wasn't sure he wanted to be married". Yikes. But fairly recently (2 months ago? about 11 months after?) he told me that he "wanted to be married to me forever". Good stuff.