Also, I don't want to cross post in my threads but if anyone can look at my last two posts in this thread

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1980070&page=38

and provide some advice about how I should address this concern

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10