I don't think it is a matter of only wanting what you can't have. Again, I will reiterate that when we married, we were serious, for better or for worse. And that is what keeps us in this mode. I don't know who it works for, or why someone moves on more quickly. I will tell you that after my second marriage ended (old pro here...) I was not going to get married. As a matter of fact, I didn't date for almost three years. Until I met the SG, I was pretty content. But now, here it is three years later, and I ask myself the same questions. What is it about this man that I can't seem to let go of?

I have been on a few dates. Even been intimate.

I have to tell you that the intimacy sucked. And I was relieved when none of the dates worked out.

I think, in plain, simple terms, we just love our spouses, ex spouses, or whatever they are.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..