2/ Sort out some sleeping arrangements for my boys.(they have no bed)
Are you saying that she removed their bedroom furniture from your home without asking you? I'm assuming this was purchased by both of you? Why did she just assume she could take it along with any other contents of the house without asking? Especially when you weren't home?! That borders on theft, it's certainly disrespectful.
Have you taken an inventory of what was taken? Are you in agreement with it?