I am sure when the softly softly approach doesn't work to get you to answer he will use the getting 'mad' strategy to see if that works.
He is so confused with your stance at the moment. I know it is difficult but he needs to know that you won't tolerate this backwards and forwards dance with OW. He has a major decision to make.
Although difficult you are strong enough to continue on your path and we all pray for a positive outcome for you both.
