Been doing my reading (DB, DR, among others) Was in LRT, but things have been going better so allowed more open contact in recent monts. Have had sessions with Laurie(DB Coach). Picking up Not Just Friends tonight.
I've slayed my own dragons in the past year or so, made lasting improvemnts in myself, and learned to let go of my anger.
Things have been better in the past two months, but if there's been a EA/PA at the same time, then she's been cake eating BIG TIME! LRT and detachment going into effect this weekend.
Thanks for the tip on focusing on exposing OM side first - makes sense. Are college age kids who have been through this fair game? (OM cheated on first wife before divorce)
I have done B and am sitting in good shape right now. His suggestion at present is to do noting since she has no grounds.
Have told her plainly and directly that we are still married, any relationship she is in is unacceptable, and that she needs to end any relationship immediately.
