I hear you and I'm sorry for what you been through. In no way I was trying to say that he had integrity. With the info you just provided, he obviously has none of it.
My point is, moving out is an ACTIVE decision. All the decisions my W has made have been passive. she's had it too easy and I'm to blame. I thought that moving out was what a gentleman and loving husband should do to provide space. And same thing for letting her travel without me and let her remain there without me.
Anyway, she has replied now and we have agreed at a later time tomorrow. She appears to be handling this in a civilized way.
Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 05/14/1006:48 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *