Libby...it must be so hard to maintain detachment and patience. But from what I can see your WH is making an effort and trying to reconnect with the kids. Remember baby steps....yes he is still in replay, but maybe the next stage of his MLC is slowly creeping in...it takes time, he is processing it all.

I know that it's very challenging to stay detached when you start seeing possitive changes in him...but you must...for your own sake.

Judging by your posts you really understand what's going on with him and you are a strong lady...you are doing great.

Hang in there smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO