SA, CW, Kissak, SCH, HB, Lalxx & FM thank you all for your posts
"cool and businesslike Mila on tap" - Yup that's me
You all seem to be in agreement that dark/dim is the way to go right now...I'm sticking to it even though it's tough. And it will be even tougher when he is back in town. We will have to meet and talk about business issues and personal finances. Have to find a way to do it without appearing angry or short or controlling....challenge
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If I'm not mistaken, your husband had done this THREE times, at least, and each time, his weakness was his undoing
HB - he is still so obsessed with this woman...he thinks that she is the "cat's meow" and can do no wrong. Every time she whistles he jumps and now she has left her husband for him. I'm hoping that the blinders are slowly coming off...the more time they spend together the better.
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The lessons must STILL be learned, the growing must be done, and the changes effected and completed within you must be permanent.
I'm it total agreement HB...it applies to both of us - WH & me.
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He is finding the OW is not YOU...and that becomes MORE clear as each day passes
That's what I'm counting on HB
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rebuilding a new relationship from the ground up, one little brick at a time
lalxx - That's what it is, isn't it. The old marriage is dead and it needs to be rebuild from the ground up.
Flow - 4 months of dimness for you? That's long...I guess you are just matching your H's behavior, still must be really hard. The problem with my H is that he wants to be my best friend and business partner while leaving me to be with OW.
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