Lees my H said at one point in a whisper that he would like us to be good friends..at that point I couldnt and probably still feel the same as long as he is with OW its not an option. In terms of your W remember everyone may have accepted you but the journey for her may not have been so accepting.Is there anyone you could talk to in the family that may give you some insight..I think there is some childhood issues in there..feel it in my gut.The serial cheating is a sign of something not working well in the past. Some days you will feel good and some not so good.I still have that but the thoughts of these OP posess everyone here because they are all the same....every last one of them... The good thing is you do not to make these decisions now..do it when you are ready about friendship, taking her back etc etc. I am thinking about the advice from ImLin and the the guys but I am not going to jump in...not cos I dont trust them,I do, buts its me. We should aim for a get together at some point..it would be good fun..and we need some of that...hugs to you(())
ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith