CityGirl and Coach, thank you. I'm not worked up about the membership. As CityGirl said, it won't make or break the marriage. I know NC is the right thing to do now.

I hope I'm not a pain but I do have two more questions. Should I at least reply to her question about the house? If I don't reply she might think I'm ignoring her. Should I validate her decision with the membership and say that I understand and respect her decision and leave it at that? I'm just trying to get this right and do the right thing. I really appreciate your advice.

I have had more positives for me this week. More GAL. I had a job interview this week for a really good job. Much better than my current job. The interview went well and they are calling me back for a second interview next week. They said that I am just what they are looking for. I begin my college courses in a month. Still doing real estate on the side and refereeing more soccer games this weekend. I'm doing more now in my life than I probably did in the past two years. I sometimes ask myself why it had to come to this for me to change?


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch