Actually, it was months and months until he told me he had lied to me about his intentions of moving out and the only reason he came forward was the legal proceedings that were starting. I live in a 'fault' state so all his actions were about to be very scrutinized. He only told me to attempt to alleviate legal damage on his end.
We only saw each other ONCE after he moved out to go on a "date" he had orchestrated so it looked like his intentions were somewhat pure. He spent the entire "date" texting. At the time he told me he was texting his parents who were traveling out of the country at the time and I believed him. He was texting with OW.
My H moved out in April of 2008 and since then, other than court appearances, I have seen him a total of 6 times.
