Detach and look at it from their perspective. View your sitch like you are looking in a fishbowl.
Nothing wrong with anger, it's how you feel. It's when you let anger control your behavior that it becomes a problem. Two techniques for dealing with anger and the blues - make a list of what you are grateful for and do something nice for somebody else. Another one is to pray for your husband and your in-laws.
Did you do your homework yet? What's your plans for the weekend?
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.