How do you deal with the HATE?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I guess my question to you is this:

Should you only try to be nice when everything is easy or you're feeling good?

Oh they will say the stupidest [censored].

For me? "My intentions were good!" she whined about having an affair with my friend.

Your intentions might have been good but your follow through sucked asss. : )


Kick,

Actually willing to bet that filing for a divorce did take some courage...change is never easy. Telling YOU that isn't the smartest thing in the world...and proves he isn't thinking clearly..or that he is just as dumb as a box of rocks and always has been.

Well do not sit there, go for a long walk and lift some weights...

as for tonight?

If you are still upset then yes, go alone, until you can control your anger....and not let it run you oOR your emotions with a drivers hand on your mouth...alone or away from him is better.

Let him know that it is easier for you to go alone tonight.