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I need and want a job so bad. I want this more than anyone could imagine.


Buddy, I'm sure this adds a dimension to things that, thankfully, I haven't had to deal with. There is not a good time to go through something like this. It makes it even worse to be unemployed or underemployed. I would tell you to remain diligent in your job searching, but I know you are.

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I know I need to do something, but I need to make sure that I have my rights as a father and am not a dad sometimes.

If you haven't already, see a lawyer. You don't have to retain one yet, just get some information so you know what to expect on that front.

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This may sound kind weird to say, but I am very proud of what you have accomplished in your thread. Keep doing what you are doing. I have so much respect for you!


Thank you very much. When you do detach, you will feel the same way. I still want to save my M. I didn't really understand how to let go and still work on us. I finally do. When you understand it, you will be unaffected by her moods or tirades and general bitchiness. And that is a wonderful way to feel again!

Hang in there!


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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