Jumping right into your thread without catching up Mila
I've been dim for 4 months -- largely because H has been dim with me and I've respected that.
It helps me to CONSTANTLY remind myself that I'm on my own journey and H is on his. HB, your writings are so helpful for understanding that.
Wishing you strength with your new strategy Mila . It sounds like a very healthy 180 for you.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
