had another revelation...part of the way I am acting toward WH gave me da ja vus of how I acted when I was dating! Not over eager, not concerned about rejection, busy with my life, let the guy be the one to call me/pursue me, and just was relaxed and confident! NO expectations!

I point this out because when I sit there and need to know "how to act" I do have my plan that I posted but to tap into familiar behavior really helps to stick to my plan if that makes sense!

Of course while dating, I would be engaging and flirtatious during conversations so I am not doing that with WH due to the circumstance, lol!


Last edited by newmama; 05/14/10 05:02 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004