That "trust/future/possible next wife" etc came up a few times between me and H as well. And I had to tell him I trusted him but not his next wife. He couldnt I would say such a thing. But my words also seem to bring closer to him another side of the reality:joggling between wives/ex wives, new and past life and his dear kids... The thought must have been scary...
I've never mentioned that to him before, but it WILL come up in the coparenting plan and separation agreement. I see present and/or future entanglements playing a big role in H's life.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
