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We all go through many transitions in life, and I think a crisis can occur in any one of those transitions. Some kids "fail to launch" in their 20's, some have "commitment issues" in their 30's, some freak out at settling down, and so on. Now I am rambling! Not your fault! his issues!


Yeah...I could tell he was a wounded bird, like me, but I had nooooo clue or inkling he was that messed up! I do wonder if I could handle him with these huge emotional problems. ???

This is really corny but for anyone who has seen "Brothers", the wife in the last scene forces her husband to tell her his dark "secret" or she will leave him. She knows they couldn't have a good marriage together, no matter how much she loved him, if he wouldn't let her know. I felt like if WH wanted to R, he would have to be willing to be an open book. So would I though!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004