Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Hi idontunderstand,

You are right we do have to figure this out on our own. I just wish I knew what was best for my sitch. I read the suggestions and what I should do. I try to understand and think how I can use what I am being told for my sitch, but I worry that I will lose the kids, and I have to focus on protecting them even if I am miserable. I found out that that is what she wants. She wants me to be miserable. I cannot say how I know this, but it is true.

I know you and everyone else cannot do it for me. I have had enough, but I need to make sure that I have some financial stability before I am able to make the tough decisions that I wish I could make now.

I need and want a job so bad. I want this more than anyone could imagine. It has been so tough for me to find one. I don't know why. I have some opportunities that look promising, but it cannot be soon enough for me.

I read your thread all the time, and I am just so happy that you have found peace in your sitch. I am not afraid of my W, but I am seriously concerned about losing the kids. I can lose everything else, but not them.

I know I need to do something, but I need to make sure that I have my rights as a father and am not a dad sometimes.

I really appreciate you posting to my thread today. You are going through a similar situation, and you give me hope all the time. Thank you so much for some peace of mind today.

This may sound kind weird to say, but I am very proud of what you have accomplished in your thread. Keep doing what you are doing. I have so much respect for you!