She'd still be on this websites and meeting other guys probably. I'd still be getting lied to.
Yes she would be and still will, and you finally realize it, the truth may suck right now but give it some time and you will feel better about accepting this truth and the reality of the situation. That's who she is and being Mr.Nice Guy to her only enabled her to continue doing what she was doing and apparently she didn't mind hurting you or taking you for granted.
Turn this around. This is your mindset now: this is her loss, not yours.
None of those guys would have put the effort you put into her and that's something she'll learn soon enough when the fantasy bubble pops and she's returned to reality.
Originally Posted By: james217
It's hard not to when you're just on this emotional roller coaster of highs and lows and someone seems to just get a kick out of seeing you go high and fall low.
Yes it is hard, you're right but you're handling it, no worries, you'll get through this.
Originally Posted By: james217
i guess i should give up
You should detach, move on and work on a great life for you, in fact doing that will give her a dose of reality and if you do it right, she'll be the one chasing you and you'll be smart enough at that point not to be easy, to make her work for it if that's even what you want at that point because you'll probably know that you have a lot of options, plenty of fish in the sea for you and she'll know that too because once she's done chasing the losers out there and once she sees what she gave up in you, she'll know she made a big mistake and that's a hard lesson for people to learn.
Let her learn it.
Right now, you get your life back on track and be the best you that you're able to be, the rest will fall into place when you get aligned with your new life and new way of living.
