I actually replied to myself in my head now. I won't go unless she's there. I'm taking papers and stuff that isn't packed and I don't really want to get into an argument with that woman about what to take and what not to.
Plus, why should I make this easier for herself? 2 months ago she asked me to be moved from the apartment, when she arrived. She clearly has a problem with actually SEEING me move out.
I don't think it's right going when she's not there. That's what I think.
(and no, I don't want to see HER, I want her to see ME and see that I'm fine and relieved which is different).
I think you are on the right track. Going when she is there will eliminate potential problems. It would be much simpler to schedule a different time.
