Lola, well put. I do believe most WAS's do feel guilt and remorse on some level, and maybe more so in times of loneliness. However, they have to put up a front for friends and family in order to make it look like they are doing the right thing for themselves and to continue telling themselves it is what they need to do. I am sure that there are always exceptions to this rule in that some people don't feel the sorrow and remorse. But we can only hope they are just a few. I believe karma will have its way with them. Shock