I also wonder if H should take D for a separate birthday outing this once. He seems in no condition not to ruin the day. His moods seem very volatile right now. Why not acknowledge that and hope for better next month or next year?
Well I did ask him IF he'd be attending the party (before birthday fiasco), I didn't ask him TO attend the party. It's really up to him...there is no pressure.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
