still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

And glad to hear that you stuck to your plan. That's not just about strategy, it's about gaining confidence in your own ability to follow through on your plan.

Good point, FM! Especially confidence about this being the right thing and not second guessing myself! That is what is hard. But thanks to DB strategies of "do something different" and "LRT" I get reassurance. After all, what I did before didn't get me closer to R. Yet if I hadn't have done it, I would have wondered "what if..." or "I should have..."