Yup, its a good choice to tell your wife... do NOT tell her in person, just text her or something... avoid a confrontation.

The only thing I would have changed from your speech above is "looking out for OUR best interset... they care about OUR MARRIAGE."

That would have been better, but I would still give it an A. smile

I get the impression that OM doens't like his buddy hitting on his wife... what a hypocrite... :P