The drinking was not a good idea on my part- there's a reason I haven't done it in years.
Sometime we need to have one of those nights The key is just to make sure we keep our emotions in check. Don't sweat it - just make sure YOU learn from it.
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Looking back- I see the value of detachment, of GAL, of everything.
That's good - now look FORWARD.
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Everyone of my friends have told me to go into "self preservation mode"
I would agree but remember self p mode does not mean be an A**
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These sitches, like life is a process- they are not hammered out in weeks, months, or years- the horizon has to be pushed very far back
As I mentioned earlier...the hard part of this process is getting to the point where YOU realize that YOU control the when. You control it! You decide when you have had enough. Fear, loneliness, insecurities - all of this cr*p will hold you back but how you deal with them is really in YOU.
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and there can be no real goal other than getting there as the best person you can be.
Yep! Your W may realize...she may not...either way YOU will be better.
Hope you had a peaceful evening.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
The key is just to make sure we keep our emotions in check. Don't sweat it - just make sure YOU learn from it. 