Today's our anniversary! 11 yrs.

Ok, not getting any responses but one over on SSM, so I'll throw it out over here too. I am going to take Oldpilot's suggestion & get my hormone levels checked, but here's the deal:

I have absolutely NO sex drive! I know one problem is my issue w/ my weight, but I just have no interest. This is how it was before the D bomb & I've made sure that we still have it regularly, but I would like to enjoy it too & I just don't. During the whole D sitch, I guess b/c of the drama or something, I couldn't get enough, but now it's back to how it was. I can just live w/o it & I don't really want it to be this way.

Any comments/suggestions/ideas, etc. etc.?


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10