Not having intimacy is a problem. Even if a woman doesn't want to or isn't ready to have intercourse, there are still other ways for the two to share. Emotionally, she sounds closed.

Are you SURE there isn't another man?

Are you two in counselling?

Have you tried Retrouvaille?

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;