My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

My h is still pushing for me to sign the d papers. He came over and explained them to me and then told me I was a smart girl and should be able to figure these out he is the stupid one. He also thinks he is not good for me. He doesn't enjoy anything in his life at all... Not work, our house, friends or the fishing trip he went on this last weekend.

His friend will be here this weekend and he doesn't want to see him at all... Really? ? He asked me if I had enough money because he doesn't need much and he still wants nothing in the d. He said he would sign the house over right now if that is what I wanted. He is also willing to take responsibility for any debt we might have if we do sell the house.... Seriously he cares about nothing and he doesn't want any material posessions we have. Why doesn't he care about anything at all?

He doesn't want to talk about anything he is feeling except that he should feel "in love" with me if we were going to stay m. I told him that isn't what love is and he just won't look at me. I brought up the ow and how it is toxic in a m... He said she is gone on the other side of the country and doesn't want to be with a m man... I told him I thought that was a lie because her facebook page says she is in school here. He said he doesn't have facebook and he was told she left the state. Maybe he is telling the truth I don't know, is he going through withdrawal? Is he lying? I told him lying to make me feel better wasn't right. He said nothing.

He is just dead inside is all he can say and that I can't trust him again I would always have something in the back of my head. He doesn't love anyone he cares for his mom and he cares for me but he doesn't love anyone or anything. I asked if he thought he was depressed and he said "ok, I'm depressed but what am I suppose to do about it" I told him there are options and he didn't respond. He wouldn't talk anymore about how he is feeling because he said he would end up curled up on the couch crying like a baby again andhe didn't want to do that again.

Oh, and his brother found out about a friend who is sick and dying. He is really upset I guess and my h said " at least he has drugs" yes, that's right it is ok for his brother but not him. WTF?

I don't know what to believe. I think it is an act but then I think back over the last 3-4 years and it can't be.... He feels horrible snd guilty about what he has done that the only solution is to go out on his own and let me be "free".