Google - Martin Seligman "Learned Optimism" explanatory styles
learn the difference between guilt and shame
Ask yourself, "What is this problem trying to teach me?"
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M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.