I do appreciate your advice and I appreciate the time you are taking to write on my post, as you can probably tell I am just very sensitive right now, I am tired of crying and being on the edge. He says he stopped talking because he did not know what to say, he truly has never been a big communicator and realizes that he struggles with this, so it was easier for him to stop talking then deal with his feelings, he is still doing this to this day. I felt attacked because instead of talking about his feelings and what was going on in his head he blamed me and how I was, he was constantly telling me what I needed to do to fix the problem but he had nothing to fix. I also felt attacked and maybe that is the wrong word because I could not believe it was so easy for him to pull away.
I am not sure what other information to share, this is all so new to me. I also do not have internet access at home so if I do not respond I am just not at work.
Thanks,
m-34 w-33 d-15 s-10 m-11 years t-16 years bomb - Feb 24/10