I love SA's advice here - having a cool and buisness like Mila on tap - what a fabulous picture to hold onto.

I have been working on exactly the same principal - polite - but my husband needs to REALLY FEEL the consequences of his actions and the impact they have had on my relationship with him - I am not talking being rotten or cruel as that's not right but essentially rebuilding a new relationship from the ground up, one little brick at a time.

Thinking of you

lalxx

Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011