OK I will say something.

Again OMW and OM call me and have me on speaker.OM said "I think things are being blown out of proportion, apparently people are taken our "hi" and "bye" as us talking again and I realize now I need to stop even that. I thought that at least was OK." he then said "I have to do this for my marriage and for my W, I have to tell your W we cant even do that anymore, she has to know it all has to stop"

I said..."I hear what you are saying, and I want your marriage to work out, and I am happy things are going great BUT you telling my W something while your W is there does not accomplish much, my W may very well just say 'he is only saying that because is W is there' and not get the point you are trying to make. "

So OM and OMW wants to call back when my W gets home to say this to my W...

Is this going too far or being blown? Last thing I want it to make matter worse for my sitch...


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10