I just realized an additional benefit to OMW using facebook.
you can minimize your phone calls but keep up to date... If your WIFE brings OMW up and you calling her just tell her you will be trying to just use facebook from this point on to keep up to date with her... That sneaks in an invitation to your wife to check up OMW facebook.. and she WILL... OMW can post all the wonderful things OM is doing and saying on there for your wife to read ... this may very well help wake her up a bit that OM is a liar