I think society has made it easier to walk away than to stay and fight. Everyone is about taking the easy road, just walking away and leaving it all behind. It is a shame for so many, especially when you have good men and women out there who are willing to fight the good fight, even if it is technically a "losing" battle. But regardless of the length of time you fight, at least you do. You did not give up and walk away. You chose to hang in there, and try to resolve the situation.
One thing I realize is that the WAS will, inevitably some day, look back and feel like a failure because deep down, they know that they were the reason that the marriage did not work. You may be able to put up a good front for friends and family, but in the end, you cannot hide from yourself.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
