water - no - no comments yet from hubby about the letters, but i plan on it being a daily thing during the week. feel funny about sending it during the weekend when we are together all weekend
jeannine - yup, the beer was flowing yesterday! hubby didn't know it but he was celebrating it with me. imagine, 6 months and we are still together!!! LOL
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POSITIVES
1) dang if hubby didn't fix a fantabulous london broil last night and some of his crab salad again. we watched a movie together, and then i promptly fell asleep! LOL - i have got to stay up later!!!
2) hubby woke up in a GOOD mood this morning and was joking around with me, and telling me about his dream...LOL
3) he got four more orders over the weekend and he is super psyched about it and is sharing with me plans for the future of this business. he just called a few minutes ago to have me start to put my thinking cap on on better shipping methods
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has an interesting conversation on im today with holdingon. basically it was about negative thoughts bringing negative results in life, and the opposite supposing to be a truism in itself
i have no problem in seeing and believing that negative thoughts can bring about negative results in life, i see it in my life and also in others.
but if the opposite is supposed to be true, how come i don't feel that way? i am really focusing on trying to be positive, to look at the positives in my sitch, but why do i think MY HUSBAND will be the one that won't benefit from these positives? why do i feel that no matter how positive i am - he still doesn't want this marriage?
even tho i see time and time again the benefits of dbn on this board, why do i think it wont work for me?
oh don't get me wrong. i am not giving up - but there is always something in the back of my mind that says "this is not going to work"
